Wednesday, September 10, 2008

The power of silence-Part 7.

The whole physical activity becomes a draining and tiring bout of feverish and frantic physical movement, a sort of seeking of a very rare, precious and ethereal experience, something which is rarely obtained, something that tantalizes and eludes you forever.

Still we never stop expecting and looking forward to this experience of fulfillment. We never realize that expectation always pushes the fulfillment away from us. When we expect anything we take our eyes off the beautiful present moment and fix our eyes on a moment in future when we think we are going to be happier.

There is another totally different approach to any sort of physical expression of the love in our hearts. First off, we slow down and really slow down. We say to ourselves that we are not going to seek anything. We are not going to get anything, but we are going to share what we already have with us.

The focus shifts from taking to giving, fully realizing that we are not giving to any one else who is separate from us but to another part of ourselves. We observe that, as far as we are concerned, the other person on the bed exists only in our thoughts about that person.

For us, he or she is the thoughts about him or her and we decide what we think. He or she cannot insert any thought in our head. If the physical expression of love makes us happy, we note that we created this happiness. If we feel unfulfilled, we again realize that we chose to feel unfulfilled for some reason that only we know of.

We also acknowledge that this other person entered our life space because we matched up with them internally using our thoughts and then the amazing Law of Attraction (LOA) brought them to us. You focus on the present moment, the grace of bodily action and the beauty of your partner. You abandon yourself totally to the warmth of the present moment.

Aaah! That can be such a rewarding and unforgettable experience, when we totally lose touch with the passage of time and get glimpses of our own eternal nature.

This is the seventh part of a series of articles on the power of silence written by Pramod K Uday. He is a leading news paper columnist in India.

Read the earlier parts here:

Power of silence-part 1.

Power of silence-part 2.

Power of Silence-part 3.

Power of Silence-part 4

Power of Silence-part 5

Power of Silence-part 6

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