When something something in my life experience which I or other members of the family look upon it as not expected and call it negative, I am beginning to see it as an indication that something is better is going to happen and that I am being prepared.
In my creator's point of view, the generally viewed condition as negative is positive to Him. This means to make place for the positive, the negative appears first. I am being prepared to accept whatever is given to me with gratitude.
This is a natural law of displacement-don't you think so?